Category Archives: Self-Growth

Why Hire a Coach Chris Ruisi

Why Use a Coach?

Coaching is about growing and moving forward through changes in behavior. Many people can offer advice, however very few can coach, and even fewer can move you forward. Almost daily I witness so-called coaches who paid to be certified, but have little if any practical real-time experience. They like to call themselves a coach, but have no clue as to how serious their role will be. And what the implications could be to the individual who believes their canned message and engages them.

A coach must earn the right to be your trusted guide, with whom you can share your hopes and aspirations in confidence that he/she will meet your needs by:

  1. Holding you accountable.
  2. Guiding you to develop and refine your ideas.
  3. Being a resource by sharing a wealth of business growth strategies.
  4. Providing you with the contacts you need.
  5. Giving you a perspective from the outside, looking in.

Business today is a race for growth and efficiency. It’s a race with few rules. Why try to forge your own path through the thick undergrowth of trial and error, traditional thinking, and lack of information and exhaust yourself far short of the finish line? Invest in yourself with a coach…but, the right coach. I hope my video will help you make this important decision.

 

Chris Ruisi - Goal Setting Tips

The Importance of Goal Setting

Goal setting is as important in your personal life as it is in business. The most common denominator in all the self-help literature and books is the importance of goal setting.

Despite their obvious value, our experience with goals has shown that some are good at setting goals, sticking to them and achieving great results, while others can’t keep a New Year’s resolution to stop smoking for two days in a row.

Here is the key point to keep in mind: winners have specific goals. Without specific goals, there is no way you can determine the most important tasks. There is nothing more powerful to your workday than knowing your purpose and executing it in an effective manner. Your life will take on a real meaning once you begin to adopt a goals mentality and focus. Continue reading

Performance Chris Ruisi

6 Steps to Raise Your Personal Performance To Be Your Best

Many talk about doing their best, but few really understand what needs to be done to achieve it. Here are 6 key steps I have observed in my working with clients – some who have succeeded and others who just couldn’t get it. Continue reading

Great Leader Chris Ruisi

Intending to be a Great Leader is nice, but…

Intentions are things you “plan” to do. From time-to-time each of us set intentions to do certain things or to accomplish specific goals. In many cases, your actions, if you take any at all, fall woefully short of your desired outcome.

Just intending on doing something very rarely gets it done. Some get so caught up in the intention that it distorts their reality to the point where they believe that they are taking action. Yet, all they are doing is talking about it and allowing the opportunity to slip away.

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Book Review: Leadership Lessons From Chris Ruisi, Author Of Step Up And Play Big

Rob Wright

By Rob Wright, Chief Editor, Life Science Leader

 

The following is an excerpt from a recent review of my book, “Step Up and Play Big – Unlock Your Potential to be Exceptional in 8 Simple Steps“, by Bob Wright, Chief Editor at Life Science Leader. His words are more than kind: they provide some additional insight into the message and teachings of my book. 

We’ve all probably encountered the frustrations related to flight delays and cancellations. I recently experienced the latter while on my way to the 35th Annual J. P. Morgan Healthcare Conference (commonly referred to as JPM) in San Francisco. Although, one positive did come out of my unplanned delay — it afforded me the opportunity to get through a leadership book I had been meaning to read, Step Up And Play Big by Chris Ruisi.

As I began my review I found myself highlighting concepts in the book, putting stars next to comments I found insightful, as well as bending over page corners I might want to revisit. In his book, Ruisi provides a quick common-sense approach to some best leadership practices. And while I’d encourage you to read the book, I’d like to share a few of his thoughts. Continue reading

Mental Toughness Chris Ruisi

Resolutions Are Useless – Build Mental Toughness First

Some view resolutions as statements of intention. However, to be meaningful, resolutions require action.

Success in business (or for that matter anything else) requires action in the form of hard, focused, disciplined and committed work. There are no shortcuts to success.

We can all agree that to be successful requires the proper use of certain knowledge and skills. However, without the proper mental foundation there is no way you can use that knowledge and skill effectively. I refer to this foundation as your “mental toughness”. Developing this mental toughness is a choice. Here are 3 key steps that will get you going in the right direction: Continue reading

Chris Ruisi Blank Canvas

It’s Never Too Late

At one minute past midnight on January 1st, we all had the same opportunity presented to us. We all were given a clean blank canvas to use to draw our future success. So with the New Year now 9 days old, let me ask: What did you draw?

  • Did it show more of the same or a bold picture of what you are truly capable of achieving?
  • Did you draw a future that is below your capabilities or one that will offer you growth and success?
  • Did your picture show your knowledge and skills getting stale or did you draw what it looks like when you truly invest in yourself and your future?
  • Did your picture show you being victimized by distractions or circumstance, or did it depict you as a master of your circumstances?
  • Did your picture show how you will be different in 2017 or did it show you “stuck in the mud” and re-living all of what you wish you had changed last year?

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Procrastination or Getting Things Done

We all make the choice to suffer from procrastination. Procrastination is born from one, or a combination of, the following:

  • Trying to be a perfectionist.
  • A lack of self-discipline.
  • The inability to fight off distractions.
  • A lack of specific goals and fear.

How many times do you start the day knowing what you want to do, but eventually come up with a reason why you just can’t get started and so you put it off? Whatever your reason might be, the fact is, you are procrastinating.

Left unchecked, procrastination can be a career and/or business killer. Here are 3 useful tips to help you overcome procrastination: Continue reading

Chris Ruisi Persistence

Persistence

One of the biggest challenges I see among the people I work with – and for that matter the many leaders and entrepreneurs I observe – is the lack of a key success skill: persistence.

Persistence requires that you forge ahead, work hard and not give up at the first, second or even third obstacle you encounter. You need to relax and accept the fact that no one gets it right the first time, or even the second or third time. It’s okay to make a mistake. In life, there are no mistakes, just lessons. Mistakes offer each of us meaningful opportunities to learn and perform better. Just don’t keep making the same mistakes over and over. If you are, then you’re just lazy.

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Chris Ruisi Learn Something Everyday

Learn Something Everyday

It’s been said that a day without learning is a day without living. When you stop learning, or close your mind to learning, you become stagnant and you die – first intellectually, then emotionally and then…well, you know. As Stephen Covey wrote in his “7 Habits…” series, work on always how to “sharpen the saw.” Legendary Coach John Wooden once said, “It’s what you learn after you think you know it all that counts.”

Always ask yourself, “What can I learn and do to improve or get better?”

Once you’ve learned something, practice it until you are good at it. I mean very good at it. Real success comes from those who practice. In life, there is no room for “winging it”. Coach Lou Carnesca of St. John’s University said it best: “Nothing takes place on the court that doesn’t first take place in practice.”

Let me share with you some of the things that I have learned over the years:

  1. You should not confuse your career with your life.
  2. A person who is nice to you, but rude to a waiter or a waitress, is not a nice person.
  3. Your friends love you anyway.
  4. Never be afraid to try something new. Remember that a lone amateur built the Ark. A large group of professionals built the Titanic.

So now that you’ve finished reading this, get moving and learn something today that will contribute to your success tomorrow!